Alina P. posted in Sleep ·
Sleep training — I feel judged either way

If I do it I'm cruel and if I don't I'm a martyr. I haven't even decided anything yet and I'm already braced for opinions. How did you decide what was right for your family without the noise?

Alina P.
'Weight their opinion accordingly' is going on a Post-it.
Georgia M.
As someone who works with families on both sides of this: there's no version where you get it wrong by thinking carefully about your own family. The only bad version is doing something you don't believe in because of pressure.
Nadia O.
The judgement is loudest from people not doing the nights. Weight their opinion accordingly.
Yael B.
We did, at 7 months, and it was right for us. My sister didn't and that was right for her. Both babies are three now and identical in every way that matters.